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Sexuality
Sexuality: (A Necessary Distinction)
Inherent Connection & Sexual Attraction| Different Sexual states | A Necessary Distinction
Heterosexuality | Bisexuality | Homosexuality
Misconceptions through unjustified political correctness
For centuries since society built an international social stigma over Homosexuality being a life choice, many people from both sides of the debate over past four decades have tried to make a distinction on sexuality to justify personal beliefs, possible realities and issues. Unfortunately every distinction that has been voiced by both side’s of the debate have left out one major factor on what sexuality actually is, and in doing so, they have institutionalise a premise that sexuality is behavioural based which furthers the stigma of choice. For decades various religions, ministries, councils, sociology groups, health authority's, politicians and LGBT rights groups have made endless statements of belief that sexuality is apparently experimented and fixed at puberty between the ages of 10 to 16. This is completely unfounded as the only individual’s qualified to give any true definition of sexuality would be a psychologist. Were these people 100% sure or have conclusive proof before making any voiced opinions or statutory claims. If you believe sexuality is experimented and fixed at a certain age, it can be explained why you would believe such a common premise. Contrary to what most people would like to believe, behaviour does not make sexuality. Are you confused?
According to in depth research; every child from the youngest ages can identify the inherent connection of which their natural drive directs them as they grow and see the people and the environment of people around them, and mainly within all other children around them. This is the inherent connection to a particular sex-(M/F), meaning the permanent inherent psychological and physiological connection to another gender regardless of sexual needs, of which can not be ignored, eradicated, turned on or off, or be manipulated, and most children will not understand it as sexuality, or recognise it as being sexual in anyway until around the ages of 5-7, and that is without any form of sexual experience or knowledge, but a child will recognise this inherent connection from the earliest ages.
As every child is brought up in every different type of environment, it will be the up bringing by their parents on which that child would recognise their natural connection, more or less than others. As a child grows he or she will learn to understand what their sexuality means by the age of 8-11. Many young teenagers will have their first sexual experiences between the ages of 9 & 16 (this mainly, will not involve intercourse of any kind) and this has been wrongly labeled by official Government sources, politicians and national media's as “experimentation”.
Experimentation: To experiment in sex is to intentionally make a consented act of sexual conduct based on an adrenalin rush of sexual arousal without any coercion by sexual attraction or by an inherent connection to a particular gender- (M/F). Solely on the possibility of seeing if it appeals to one or if one might enjoy the experience of it with that type of person, on the basis of sexual relief or curiosity. Even if that gender-(M/F) of the consented other is a gender which he or she would or would not be normally sexually attracted.
The Inherent connection of sexuality: Instead of a prompted responsive natural action based on a deep, natural, physiological & psychological attachment in a need to make physical contact based on a human driven sexual attraction through a naturally driven inherent connection to a particular gender.
Understanding the inherent connection: If you are confused as to what this means, it can be very easily explained. For example: If any person was to close their eyes and tried not to think about sex ever again, or tried not to fall in love, or tried to make every effort to work against feeling sexual for a particular gender-(male/female). They would still know, that if they were to continue to feel for another gender, what that gender is, that they are inherent connected too. You cannot remove that inherent connection, or even turn it off, or eradicate it, or work against it, and it is this inherent connection that makes sexuality, not the behaviour that acts on it, because what ever is inherent is from birth; anything else is acquired, meaning a choice. This hidden inherent core origin of sexuality is an unchangeable physiology to another gender from birth, in the chromosomes of the hypothalamus of the brain, which is the only scientifically known and proven part of the brain that establishes & controls all emotional states and sexual desires within a human being for another.
Sexual attraction: is a main direct expression of that inherent connection; a person cannot be sexually attracted to any person that they are not inherently connected too, “or” who fits their personal visual preferences. Everyone has their particular type of person they are visually attracted to sexually by sight.
For example: Heterosexual men are only attracted to particular types of females but not all females. They will not be sexually attracted to any woman that does not fit their personally preferred types. If a Heterosexual man pushes himself in the direction of woman that he is not sexually attracted to, any sexually physical outcome will only be based on the temporary arousal or lust if and when it manifests itself simultaneously between both parties for that man and woman to achieve any form of sexual gratification, which is usually either based on sexual oppression, sexual desperation through unavailable personal preference types, or experimentation on trying different things. The inherent connection of sexuality will naturally disallow any “want” or “emotionally motivated sexual need” to be drawn to any individual they are not sexually attracted too and these individuals will not be their personal preference type regardless of being inherently connected to that particular gender.
Thus separating the intrinsic inherent physiology from any behavioural needs, showing the inherent connection is what makes sexuality, and not the behaviour or sexual choices that acted on it, which constitutes an obvious and irrefutable drawn line between the two. Many believe other sexualities are a ‘life choice’ and as many of the accused refute this accusation, others believe they themselves made such a life choice without separating that inherent physiological connection, from physical needs. Although it is a fact that not one recorded scientific institution, religion or government globally has ever come close to the correct conclusions to produced material to separate the two. To understand a genuine flaw in these experimentation and life choice presumptions, please read the following distinctions and psychology on the following perceived, believed and refuted sexualities.
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Different Sexual States.
SEXUAL ATTRACTION; (Inherent)
Sexual Attraction is confined only as the emotional and sexual natural drive of the inherent connection of a person to another sex-(M/F). Which emotionally activates a sensitive psychological & physiological connection, on a need to make physical and or verbal contact for the purpose of a binding psychological & physiological beneficial need of an intimate state with another person, permanently or temporarily with attachment to sexual relations "and or” commitment. Sexual Attraction is the physiologically active part of a persons inherent connection, which "will not" manifest itself towards "any other person" of which there is "not" a naturally inherent driven connection.
SEXUAL AROUSAL; Sexual Arousal does not always or necessarily need sexual attraction to manifest itself, as arousal manifests itself in many forms. Any person will become aroused by hormones which is a natural chemical in a persons system without the need to be in the vicinity of any other individual, or even other external & visual sexual influences. Most people can wake up in the morning naturally aroused without thinking of sex. And also a person can use arousal to relieve sexual tension (Masturbation) with or without being sexually oppressed. It is very common for persons who are sexually oppressed to also use arousal for physical sexual relations purposes with other persons they are not even sexually attracted too, "even if" normally inherently connected to that particular sex-(M/F) but only for the purpose of sexual gratification.
(E.g.; A sexually oppressed Heterosexual male with the need for sex, that "can not" find his personal preferred type of female but finds a woman that he is not sexually attracted too, and allows himself to act on and receive sexual gratification, or experiment's to see if that type of female or person appeals because of either server sexual oppression, psychological interest of difference sexual conduct or practices by experimentation)
SEXUAL LUST; Sexual lust can manifest itself through many forms but it is mainly "either" a form of psychological infatuation of another person over sex through sexual attraction, or an extremely strong temporary sexual arousal "with or without" sexual attraction over oppressed sexual needs, with very little outlet to express or find another gender (M/F) to relieve such sexual tensions.
SEXUAL DESIRE; Sexual desire is not much different from sexual lust but it is mainly the predominant or temporary psychological over-interest of thought by way of imagination grown from sexual arousal or attraction towards another sex-(M/F) "or" a form of interest, in untried sexual conduct or practices based on the thought of experimentation.
FORNICATION; Fornication can be a plethora of sexual activity's, but fornication is mainly about physical sexual pleasure with or without any form of intercourse or intimacy and intercourse is self explanatory for whatever sexuality.
RAPE / RAPISTS; Rape is an immoral act or attempt whatever sexuality, and all self acknowledged sexuality's (Heterosexuals & Homosexuals) see rape as the same illegal standing to each other. The act of rape about power and control and not based on physical relief, and can be by whatever form of sexual activity that can only be classed as such if it is between two or more persons. Rape is where one or more person is unwilling or un-consented to a sexual activity and are forced too, either physically or by psychologically manipulated to receive and endure sexual fornication against their will. An attempt of rape is were the unwilling party rejects such activity by whatever means and does not wish to participate. This does not mean the aggressor's are not rapists because the act did not take place, because the act was attempted showing their intentions.
[These are simple grounds of human psychological and physiological needs & wants. So bare these in mind as you read this brief as it will constantly bring you back to understanding what sexuality capable off and its confined limitations.]
Many believe other sexualities are a ‘life choice’ and as many of the accused refute this accusation, others believe they themselves made such a life choice without separating that inherent physiological connection, from physical needs.
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A Necessary Distinction
The following findings were based on the results of a 300-person response to an anonymous questionnaire produced and conducted by B-F-P in June-July 2002 on the LGBT community social scene, to obtain the publics personal view of sexuality in relation to their personal understanding of their own. The finding were compared in relation to research of national and international political and entertainment media & public views and expression of the issue of Homosexuality on working out the exactly what those views actually mean, whether from bias & prejudice society or from supporting Heterosexuals and all the LGBT community media that was conducted compiled in 2001. Not one recorded scientific institution, religion or government globally has ever come close to the correct conclusions to produced material to separate the two.
If any truth lay on there being three true sexuality's Heterosexual, Homosexual & Bisexual. It would be human arrogance to believe that only one specific sexuality is inherent and the other two sexuality's are experimented and then fixed and believing the first to more superior. But there is a majority of people who believe they themselves made such a directional life choice to be that way and believe that “no” sexuality is inherently fixed from birth.
To understand a genuine flaw in these experimentation and life choice presumptions, please read the following distinctions and psychology on the following perceived, believed and refuted sexualities.
The Official Statutory Vocabulary Meanings of
Sexuality: People with feeling and or attraction towards persons of a particular gender.
Name: All who go under that name; a family, a clan, individual, people, minority, or race; within the meanings or the terms of the name. (Also applies to inanimate objects)
Distinctions on all sexualities that many may refute or believe
[The following distinctions below have been constructed from in-depth B-F-P research and a 300 person survey on the London LGBT social scene to cover many different beliefs which do differ, but it is still important to understand those other beliefs as well your own.]
Heterosexuality;
Heterosexuality: An unchangeable inherent connection from birth, to find a permanent state of eternal monogamous love towards ‘only’ persons of the opposite sex.
[The name Heterosexual is the abbreviation of Heterosexuality, to mean the individual person]
The Official Statutory Vocabulary Meaning
Heterosexual: People with feeling and or attraction towards persons of the opposite sex.
Equal to the official meanings of Bisexual and Homosexual, as it only carries inherent and immutable characteristics and no characteristics of behaviour that acts on those inherent characteristics.
[The largest percent Heterosexuals in society believe and state that this is what makes them Heterosexual, however there are many who do not believe in the existence of such a nature that is “only” driven towards the opposite sex from birth]
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Some people reading this who believe themselves to be Homosexual, may possibly become confused, believe it or not, Bisexuality is more complicated than anyone might think or has even been revealed before.
Bisexuality:
Bisexuality is a variable physiology of an unbalanced inherent connection from birth to find a permanent state of eternal monogamous love towards persons of both genders.
But!
The birth state of the inherent connection is not always equally balanced, as many Bisexuals are born with a more predominantly driven inherent connection to one gender-(M/F) more than the other.
[This is from birth, and the inherent connection is identifiable at the earliest ages of childhood in all people regardless of sexuality. A child will personally identify a close connection to the gender he or she is driven to by sight, before any forms of sexual needs or aspirations are ever felt. As with any sexuality the nature of understanding sexual needs is only experienced after adolescence and through maturity where a person becomes more self-aware through the growth of knowledge on sexual experience and needs.]
But because of the unbalanced nature, Bisexuals will become to understand which of the genders he or she is more predominant driven towards, in relation to the most predominantly driven connection, over the psychological measuring of sexual needs. Which can leave them later in life ‘to believe’ that their sexuality was experimented and then became permanent or a choice at puberty, and this leaves many to believe their sexuality was not naturally set from birth. There are Bisexuals more or less equally balanced from birth and at youth can or will base their first sexual experience or most enjoyed and preferred experience with a particular ‘gender-(M/F) and never explore the other as many unbalanced Bisexuals do. But they will still have a natural drive for both genders-(M/F), as the desire for the ‘preferred’ gender will be the most influential. This can or will make the inherent connection for the other gender-(M/F) less desirable, and almost unnoticeable and for many ‘nonexistent’ but not eradicated or a miss-understandable avenue of sexuality.
(For Example*: A boy in his youth before any form of sexual experience in life, feels emotionally & inherently connected to both genders, but is predominantly driven to one gender more than the other. Later in life after sexual experience, he becomes to understand that predominantly driven connection and does not consciously continue towards the other gender, or feel any need to explore the gender again or pursue it further.)
It is rare but later in life a Bisexual sexual attraction can ‘sometimes’ vary, and may start re-exploring the other gender-(M/F) by whatever unlimited possibilities. For example: through sexual experiences or lengthy periods of time surrounded by people of the other gender (M/F) creating psychological intimacy. However, when it comes to falling in love with either gender-(M/F), it will only be by whatever attraction to one gender-(M/F) that comes first, and never both simultaneously.
Bisexuality is extremely complicated but it is explainable by a differential gradient in an individual’s inherent connection from birth, based on what is above or below 50% on a particular gender [For example: Opposite sex 1% and Same sex at 99%]. The more or less equally balanced Bisexuals are around a 50-50% gradient, but it can all be brought down to three basic levels.
- Opposite sex driven - Bisexuality: Inherently & predominantly driven from birth by 60 – 95% towards the opposite sex more that the same sex, with or without sexual experiences or relationships of the same sex through adolescence into maturity. Making the inherent drive for the same sex extremely vague but not misunderstood. Many opposite sex driven Bisexuals not only believe they are Heterosexuals, but believe this is what makes Heterosexuality if you do not veer towards the same sex.
- More or less equally Bisexuality: More or less equally balanced inherent connection towards both genders, but sexually they will find more pleasurable sexual experiences with one gender (M/F) more than the other sex (M/F).
- Same sex driven -Bisexuality: Inherently & predominantly driven from birth by 60 – 95% towards the same sex more that the opposite sex, with or without sexual experiences or relationships of the opposite sex through adolescence into maturity. Making the inherent drive for the opposite sex extremely vague but not misunderstood. Many same sex driven Bisexuals not only believe they are Homosexuals, but believe this is what makes Homosexuality if you do not veer towards the opposite sex.
Because of the international social stigma that Homosexuality is a choice, Bisexuals of every level, personally believe Homosexuality and Heterosexuality is a life choice, by either taking a well socially accepted and legally supported left turn in the road of life, or taking the unsupported right turn (metaphorically speaking). Although opposite sex driven and same sex driven Bisexuals believe sexuality is a choice, if one was to ask either of them the question: Can you give up and ignore that gender you are predominantly driven towards for the rest of your life, and concentrate solely on the other gender they are driven less towards. You will find that the only answer they could give, is no! But if was a optional life choice as they blindly believe, they should be more than capable of it.
But social conditioning stops Bisexuals from realising you cannot make a choice on a fixed differential that was already naturally integrated, regardless of sexual needs or its unbalanced nature.
B-F-P has found through its survey that the Bisexuals, regardless of which gradient drive they are, would argue against and disbelieve without question the existence of any sexuality that has an inherent connection to only “one” gender from birth. Which is just a belief, and an unjustified one at that.
The “name” Bisexual is the abbreviation of Bisexuality, to mean the individual person.
The Official Statutory Vocabulary Meaning
Bisexual: People with feeling and or attraction towards persons of both sexes.
Equal to the official meanings of Heterosexual and Homosexual, as it only carries inherent and immutable characteristics and no characteristics of behaviour that act’s on those inherent characteristics.
[However the largest percent Heterosexual society do not believe in the existence of such a nature that is inherently connected towards both sexes either from birth or at anytime in life]
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Homosexuality
Homosexuality: An unchangeable inherent connection from birth, to find a permanent state of eternal monogamous love towards ‘only’ persons of the same sex.
The “name” Homosexual is the abbreviation of Homosexuality, to mean the individual person.
The Official Statutory Vocabulary Meaning
Homosexual: People with feeling and or attraction towards persons of the same sex.
Equal to the official meanings of Heterosexual and Bisexual, as it only carries inherent and immutable characteristics and no characteristics of behaviour that act’s on those inherent characteristics.
[The largest percent Homosexuals believe and state that this is what makes them Homosexuals, however the largest percent of Heterosexual society and all Bisexuals do not believe in the existence of such a nature that is “only” driven towards the same sex from birth with no connection to the opposite sex. Which leaves all Bisexuals and Heterosexuals, whether they believe its wrong or ok to be that way, to directly socially and politically victimising and discriminating against Homosexuals who state and believe this their nature]
No one has ever made any in-depth distinction on sexuality especially Bisexuality like this before and this material is based on genuine sociology and psychology research done by B-F-P conducted in 2002. Even though prejudice Heterosexuals accuse Homosexuals of a life choice to be that way. Bisexuals have absolutely no belief in the first and last distinctions, but it is this inherent connection that makes sexuality, which is not visual state of being not the sexual behaviour that acted on it.
If there are three true inherent sexuality's, these would be their natural inherent distinctions.
With sexuality, there is a dangerous element of psychology that goes hand in hand with it.
if you are interested what that means, please click on the following link
The psychological perspective of sexuality from a Bisexual
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